luterer
Jan 26 2008, 09:27 AM
Be Honest!
If you
really
like/love someone
right
now, and you
miss
them at
this
moment, and you
can't
get them
out
of your
head,
and you really
wanna see them
& just cuddle :-)
then re-post this titled
"r u in love?to whom?"
within one minute.
And whoever you are missing, will
surprise you in a good way...
tomorrow.
**BREAK THIS, AND YOU WILL HAVE THE
WORST LIFE STARTING
IN 2 HOURS COUNTING
within one minute
Hotagi101
Jan 26 2008, 06:17 PM
errr...this seems like a chain so...please don't do that again...but
Yeah I use to love someone....but love is just stupid......It's a physical attraction nothing more, besides....the other person will just end up leaving you anywayz
luterer
Jan 26 2008, 09:54 PM
my bad i know it's a chain...sorryyyyy
Hotagi101
Jan 27 2008, 02:01 AM
Lol it's ok

no worries
salar
Jan 27 2008, 09:24 AM
yes,love is nothing but obstacle...........wont bring u anything but a temperory happines that will fade away in a blink of eye and will always get in the way or ur success
zeriah
Jan 27 2008, 09:35 AM
There's a lot of depressing things being said in this thread
sindon007
Jan 27 2008, 09:52 AM
i love you all
Mouri Ran
Jan 27 2008, 09:55 AM
I wish the one I am missing will surprise me in a good way....
but I dont really belive that -sigh-
mizutama
Jan 27 2008, 10:03 AM
QUOTE (salar @ Jan 27 2008, 10:24 AM)

yes,love is nothing but obstacle...........wont bring u anything but a temperory happines that will fade away in a blink of eye and will always get in the way or ur success
NO!...
no person on Earth can make up the real definition of love...
what I think is that a human being will never know what happiness is until truly falling in love... <3
salar
Jan 27 2008, 11:26 AM
That was true when true love existed but nowdays it doesnt exist.......u will betray ur love for money....as i said before in the old days love would bring love but now money would bring love so no money no love.......love these days has been forgetten and if u take a look a those magazines u will see how much the percentage of divorce has increased...... I have very very rarly seen a true love........love is not just kiss and this and that then break up...love's puerness has been forgoten and u will fall in love today and tomarrow ull break up that shows nodays' love is fake and just an image of true love.....love is a divine word and I'll be happy if i can experience true love some day(i hope so) but other than that I wolud just give up and live by myself ^^
lol I feel like i have spoekn like a priest ^^ but anyway that what i think
mizutama
Jan 27 2008, 12:36 PM
damn, you make me wanna act like Naruto.... xD
the mistake is to think the way you do, and I mean the part with "nowadays love doesn't exist"... it's sad, but I've met a lot of ppl having the same opinion you do...
It all starts with ourselves... When you'll believe in true emotions, that is when other ppl will do that as well... We all look one at another and act like the majority... but why not to think for ourselves and do things the way WE FEEL, not the way other ppl think!!!
Hotagi101
Jan 27 2008, 01:16 PM
Im sorry but Salar is telling the truth.....True love to me doesn't exist. They always leave, and each time it hurts worse than the last.....it's better to just give up that hope of finding true love and live by yourself...I don't mean to go like gaara or anything. All of you will get a divorce in here....i know you will and all of you are going to break up with your finances....and all of you are still going to go out and find that true special someone....so you don't feel that loneliness of lack of compassion....Thats mostly why you want to fall in love, you fear of dying/living alone and solitude...so you desperately try to find it...Hell you don't even TRY to find your true love...I bet alot of you keep your standards way to high and don't realize that special guy/girl secretly fawning over you and would truly make your live a living happiness......
mizutama
Jan 27 2008, 01:34 PM
it's better to just give up - i hate these words, lol
True love doesn't exist because there are ppl like you, who DO NOT believe in it...
ppl lately became EVIL...
*singing
build the love generation... *
salar
Jan 27 2008, 01:45 PM
QUOTE
damn, you make me wanna act like Naruto.... xD
the mistake is to think the way you do, and I mean the part with "nowadays love doesn't exist"... it's sad, but I've met a lot of ppl having the same opinion you do...
It all starts with ourselves... When you'll believe in true emotions, that is when other ppl will do that as well... We all look one at another and act like the majority... but why not to think for ourselves and do things the way WE FEEL, not the way other ppl think!!!
I belive in my emotins but cant find that emotion in nowdays' love.........I think all of u know that famous sentece that represents love=lets live togather FOREVER=but thats exactly what nowdays' love lack....when 2 couple say that to each other they dont even think about what they r saying and what they mean by that....It has become like a common word like hi or breakfast and has lost its value......some times I envy those ppl indian ppl living in australia cause they have such simple life and they can experience true love and would sacrifice themselves for eachother and they know the real meaning of love.....if u wanna find true love u should throw away many things u have in ur life and i wonder if we have such a courage???.......can u realy stand it when u see ur current GF/BF with another boy/girl chatting and laughing and having fun......that has become so common these days that u cant trust ur partner and u r always worried what she/he is doing right now or where he/she is right now........this is just so lame and im not goona destroy my peaceful life with this pointless thoughts........i dont want my emotions and feelings messed so i give up but i also have this hope that some day i may find some one who i can realy trust and experience the real meaning of that sentence with her(lets live togather FOREVER)
you fall in love to gain happiness not to hug sadness
mizutama
Jan 27 2008, 01:58 PM
I understand what're you talking about, and I agree with most of what you said...
I said in the previous post that lately ppl became evil...

We judge others and we don't see our own mistakes...
If you judge people, you have no time to love them!
Most of us have lost the meaning of love... and not just LOVE between a boy and a girl, but even love between siblings... (I mean normal love... )
How many of us say "I love you" to brothers, sisters? and how often, I wonder?
salar
Jan 27 2008, 02:20 PM
the problem is that ppl wont give u the time to judge them cause everything will fall apart so soon that u wont even realize urself and the relationships are so unstable that there is no time to judge
and agree about that part u said about a bro and sis.......form my point of view if ow sibilings fall in love it will be strong love and also nice cause they know eachother better than anyone else and they have judged each other before they fall in love and that may become a realy strong love(true love) and i hate those ppl that dont accept sibilings' love
Hotagi101
Jan 27 2008, 07:25 PM
lol so you support incest? meh your right....they probably have a better relationship than most people

I never said given up, just accept the fact

Lol no really, im more of the type that is going to wait......Instead of just rushing out their and trying to find her...i'll just take my chance and hope that she comes to me..
Also the 'I love you' lol i lost my first 2 'GF' cause of that....I never said it to them bc...well i didn't know exactly if i did, it was still that kind of trying to figure out what im feeling was what people say love....but of course they took that the wrong way and i got dumped

though my last GF i really did love....i know i did, cause....she made me feel like i could do anything and we could talk about anything. We could read each other's emotions and thoughts...we were friends for ever...though the only thing that buged me about her was....well let's just say that...she isn't the hottest girl around (to other people...to me she was perfect) and she would get down on that sometimes....
We were together for 8 months, friends for 4 years....then she disappeared on me....just out of the blue *sighs* i guess her parents made them move in the middle of the night....and sometimes i just hope that she forgot my number so she wasn't able to call me.....
luterer
Jan 27 2008, 09:07 PM
omg this turn out to be a good topic for people saying love is depression
i have never had a gf before...so i dunno what will happen.
im gonna confessed to her now...after she is online >_>
im not gonna confess at school.NO WaI!
Hotagi101
Jan 27 2008, 09:41 PM
DUDE NO!!! trust me lol it would be much much better if you did it in person.
luterer
Jan 27 2008, 10:05 PM
it turned out she didn't online...confessing at school is soooooo hard
what if she reject me?!
it gonna be really embarassing...face to face with her also will be hard...
if i give her letter...teacher will take it and the worst is the teacher will read it out loud and demerit points...damn
mizutama
Jan 28 2008, 08:17 AM
just tell her about your feelings and don't ask for anything in change
and why do you think it would be embarrassing if she'd reject you, c'mon... BE A MAN, lol... relax, take it easy...
It's hard to live in Africa and struggle for life, to battle in wars... and bla-bla-bla... but telling smb about your feelings isn't hard at all...
kotojinn magime
Jan 28 2008, 01:58 PM
my GF, I wish I could see her right now....... O.O OMG and here she is *kiss for about 5 minutes* okay now she has to go to class. Weird I was writting about how I wanted to see her and she showed up. Hmmmmm I really wish Jessica Alba would walk in naked right now and give me a lap dance................WOO HOO!!!!!
PS. Everyone stop being EMO
Jatohn-san
Jan 28 2008, 04:29 PM
Wow this topic is something else. The one thing I will agree with is Love doesnt exist today. I forgot who posted that on here. Lust exists. Even wh*res (both men and women) exist. Most people don't even know what love is any more. Most people think love and sex is the same thing which it isnt. Thats my view on love. I would like to be in actual love one day, but I wouldn't be surprised if that day never happened.
By the way this topic is kind of depressing. lol
juggalokai
Jan 28 2008, 07:26 PM
I love my gf
been in love for like 2 years some odd number of months
been such a long time i even cared about other girls C_C
aedsax
Jan 29 2008, 02:06 AM
Congrats Kai!!! xD *pats him on back*
Well... one thing I believe in about love is that although there are those who share the real kind, the rest is overrated. So much so. >_> I see even my real life friends complaining about this guy or that girl, or that they are so depressed because they didn't reply to their message, and that they'd wait for ever and ever and EVER if it meant that the person would become their partner, or that their heart is aching, and that they cry every night believing that what they feel is real, and that they'd die for the person, and that they'd be loyal or whatever load of other bullshit they decide is lovely to hear.
Frankly, all of them, at least in that category, are asswipes. >_> And I'm serious, because they end up looking at other people eventually, and once when the person they're crushing on continues to ignore them and their little infatuation fades away, this new peson who they say they "fall in love with" and whatnot. ._. Seriously. ._. And that person is someone they saw jogging by and happened to be good-looking. >_> Really now, that's total crap.
._.
mizutama
Jan 29 2008, 08:34 AM
Let's not confound love with obsession...
I think some of us (maybe even me) should come back to this topic at around 20-22 years old... We need to gain some more life experience...
life will show if there is or isn't true love...
kotojinn magime
Jan 29 2008, 02:16 PM
Okay that crap about love does not exist is bullshit, either you have not found love or you just suck at relationships. (OMG AND HERE IS MY GF AGAIN SWEET, well she gets out at the same time every day so of course I'm going to see her......*sad* she's depressed) Anyways, tell me this isnt love. I met my current GF when she was in 8th grade and I was a freshman. At the time I didn't know it but she had a crush on me, same as me. From then on we both tried to spend as much time with eachother never realizing that we both liked one another. And when I started to date another girl last year, almost instantly she stopped talking to me and avoided me. And I finally got up the nerve to ask her out she was WAY over the top with excitement. Now we spend even more time with eachother and can't go a single day without talking to eachother. We usually spend three or more hours at night on the phone talking about absolutely nothing at all. Some times were just on the phone watching tv together. We love being around eachother, even before we were dating we were best friends and talked about everything. Now that were dating the bond is even stronger because now we can express are true feelings. Heck this may sound stupid and corny but we have already staryed looking at apartments together. And have already started to think about a family, we here **** all the time about how we have the best relationship in the entire school. HELL we were even in the town paper with a huge ******* heart around us for the past three months as best high school couple. Sure there are alot of sick f***** up people out there that are just out there for the money but don't tell me that love is dead. Only your belief in it is, there is such a thing as love at first sight.
naruto13_
Jan 29 2008, 05:56 PM
omgosh, you guys are sooooo depressing haha. I was reading all of you posts until they became like an essay long! But love is there you just have to not be so uptight and everything. Like if you don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend right now or before you are considered a reject or something like that. you aren't so like just get over it and if the girl/ boy isnt the prettiest thing ever but he/she cares about you just go for it if you dont like him/her then thats fine, you don't have to be enemies when you breakup. And that way you know you didnt miss out on something.
Oh and Matt, who was your last girlfriend? (sam?) and your two loves, tell me later please!
Hotagi101
Jan 30 2008, 07:28 PM
Sam?!?! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH no....LOL no no not sam XD XD XD that was.....just something that happened when i was depressed XD I don't think i really loved her, just something their to cling my life onto (Im looking back at it now, then i thought i was in love....and when i was with her, she made me even MORE depressed...)
But no...my last GF was Racheal Gursky. Lol.....It's funny really cause I guess she had a crush on me ever since we met, and I really didn't notice her at all (like that) for the most of our time hanging out.....It wasn't until she hugged me that i looked at her (like wow...) it just felt right......And thats the same girl that pressured me into doing the nasty XD but that wasn't until near the end of our relationship.....or are we still together?...idk lol it's too confusing i guess.
But im going to take back what i said....i was using one personal experience to determine everyone else's life style

True love is out their.....just be patient and keep your eye's wide open
juggalokai
Jan 30 2008, 07:42 PM
lmfao the NASTY
hahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaa
ui890
Jan 30 2008, 08:29 PM
uhhh? i don't think i've experience love before, but i have/had a gigantic crush and my friend's brother who's in Austalia currently (my friend her mom, and brother moved there.)
So.... yeah. (:
I_Am_So_Awesome
Jan 30 2008, 09:13 PM
I love, ALL OF U!
lol jk, ive never been in love b4 i thot i was, 5 times actually, but it just went away as i saw them less and less(and moved away)
but, if i live long enuff, i think ill probly find that special som1
aedsax
Jan 31 2008, 05:36 AM
... MWAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!! AHAHAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHHAHAAAAAAAA!!! ahaaahaha... haha... ha... ahahahaha... *pffffttt* NYAAAAAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! *rofl*

XD Ahaha, ha.... *wipes tear from eyes* ahahaha... haha... *tries to hold it in*
LOL Omg, that was fun. Ahaha... pffft... anyway, Kotojinn, are you
defensive? XD
Anyway, the real reason. Lolz, No really, I'm just stating my opinions, man, dude, because from some kind-of similar topic some year ago, there was this other guy who was probably trying to "open the eyes" or somewhat, and said that he knew a whole lot of people were overrating things (different words, harsher, depending on how you see it), anyway, so yeah. *pfffft*
No, man, I'm not judging you. I'm happy for you, that you found someone you're going to believe in the rest of your life, and share that part of you with, but well, I have my opinions. Like I said in the first part of the rant-post of mine: "although there are some who share the real kind".
And... err... I'm kinda too young to be looking for "love", since I'm still focusing on my studies (because sometimes colleges
suck *screams at notebook*), and I have enough distractions as it is, but I'm not immune to crushes. >_> There are a lot, although I have to say that I'd rather wait a few more years (like Mizu said, like, 22 or 23, or something) before I'd find out for myself. Heck, I'd wait 'til I'm 25, lolz.
...
O_O Hotagi, HOW OLD ARE YOU?! *_*
zeriah
Jan 31 2008, 05:48 AM
That's great to hear jugs and Kotojinn so sick of hearing the depressing stuff in this thread
mizutama
Jan 31 2008, 08:38 AM
um... I don't see any depressing stuff here...
some ppl think there is love, others think there isn't... What's so depressing about it?
zeriah
Jan 31 2008, 08:49 AM
People who say love doesn't exist depresses me. It makes me sad to hear these people say there is no such thing as love.
mizutama
Jan 31 2008, 08:56 AM
They are too young to understand how wrong they are xD
Leviathin
Jan 31 2008, 05:09 PM
QUOTE (Hotagi101 @ Jan 26 2008, 03:17 PM)

errr...this seems like a chain so...please don't do that again...but
Yeah I use to love someone....but love is just stupid......It's a physical attraction nothing more, besides....the other person will just end up leaving you anywayz
No nothing more than a physical attraction would be lust.
juggalokai
Feb 1 2008, 08:42 AM
QUOTE (zeriah @ Jan 31 2008, 03:48 AM)

That's great to hear jugs and Kotojinn so sick of hearing the depressing stuff in this thread

lol i didnt know text was actually making sounds man

QUOTE (mizutama @ Jan 31 2008, 06:38 AM)

um... I don't see any depressing stuff here...
some ppl think there is love, others think there isn't... What's so depressing about it?
i was too lazy to read other peoples thoughts
QUOTE (zeriah @ Jan 31 2008, 06:49 AM)

People who say love doesn't exist depresses me. It makes me sad to hear these people say there is no such thing as love.
aww boo hoo

how does another persons idea depress you?
XD crazy guy dont waste time letting other peoples sadness bother u
Hotagi101
Feb 1 2008, 06:50 PM
Lol i understand where you coming from Zeriah

and gmrking i was saying that was what love is nowadays. Also....the person we are going to walk up to ask on a date and etc. etc. We are going to find them physically attractive no? In somewhat way what i said was the truth.....Their just has to be some kind of physical attraction their...it's in our nature...
And lol Sex (thats your new nickname Aedsax

) im 16...
naruto13_
Feb 1 2008, 07:20 PM
Jeeez matt you only what 15? 16? naughty naughty little boy you are hahaha.
Hotagi101
Feb 1 2008, 08:11 PM
Now now khay, i know your little dirty secrets too

XD j/k j/k....or am i
micrightnow
Feb 1 2008, 08:39 PM
I believe in true love... but I believe 99.999% of people will never have the chance to experience it.
They just will experience regular love and/or heart break.
aedsax
Feb 2 2008, 11:50 PM
... Hotagi, you're sixteen and you've gone there? To, you know, the dark side? *LOL*
Oooh... that nickname's... different. *.* Although I have to say you're the only who dared to say that, lolz.
moon.lover
Feb 3 2008, 01:38 AM
we have aphorism that says " The love is for the first beloved only " and i think it is right.
i think i start like some one ( first girl in my life ) and i am very afraid to fall in it.
but the love is not for girls only , I love my aunt very much and she does , i love her more than any one in this world but maybe the first girl changes this. but i tell my self ( you don't like her , you don't like her . she doesn't like you although she said that ) and i think i will not complete this.
LOVE IS CALVARY AND TORMENR.
but i am not very worried cause my future wife will be every thing in my life. the wife is the best beloved.
mizutama
Feb 3 2008, 01:47 AM
Love is Calvary and Torment to you NOW, but I wanna see you posting in a few years when you'll fall in love and be happy and content with it
Hotagi101
Feb 3 2008, 01:52 AM
Lol im a daring guy Sex

Also yes...i've been to...the dark side...and no wonder not many people last long on that side

IM SO COMING HERE ON MY DEATHBED! lol it's going to be my final wish....to let me post...one last time in this topic before i die XD then i'll tell you about love from what i've exp
juggalokai
Feb 3 2008, 01:55 AM
QUOTE (aedsax @ Feb 2 2008, 09:50 PM)

... Hotagi, you're sixteen and you've gone there? To, you know, the dark side? *LOL*
Oooh... that nickname's... different. *.* Although I have to say you're the only who dared to say that, lolz.
LMFAO! i did it when i was 16
mizutama
Feb 3 2008, 02:03 AM
I see you 2 so proud of yourselves!!! xD
juggalokai
Feb 3 2008, 02:07 AM
QUOTE (mizutama @ Feb 3 2008, 12:03 AM)

I see you 2 so proud of yourselves!!! xD
hahaha

naw its nothin to be proud of or to be ashamed
but Aed is so crazy lol
she might as well call it the "Nasty" hahahahaha
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